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How To Use Self Encouragement To Increase Motivation

Author: Andrew Mccombe

The word encouragement emanates from the Latin word Cor, meaning heart. It means to give courage, confidence or hope. Having courage is having the ability to disregard fear and to be brave. The easiest way to be brave and fearless is to listen to and follow your heart. To further your level of success you must establish a system for self-encouragement.

Pursue activities that you feel passionate about.

Performing activities that you enjoy and that are fulfilling will help you to build momentum toward your life of EASE. As mentioned in Step Three of the Creating Your Life of EASE chapter, in the Activate your Life Book, it is the feelings that achieving your goals will give you that make them fulfilling in the first place. The most important aspect of establishing your system for encouragement is to focus your attention on the feelings that achieving your ideal life will give you. There is no point performing activities that do not make you feel compelled to perform them. You will know if the activity is correct for you by instinct and by the feelings you get when you perform them. Before setting any goal or performing any activity, ask yourself the following questions:

Why do I want to achieve this goal?

What is the underlying feeling it will give me?

What does this mean to me?

Is this feeling compelling enough to maintain my motivation in the long term?

Self-acknowledgement

An excellent way to encourage yourself, and to become more aware of your progress, is to acknowledge yourself for your achievements. Often we get caught up in the things that we havent achieved in our lives, which take our focus away from what is really happening.

If you are struggling to see any personal progress I recommend writing a list of everything you have achieved in your life. This will very quickly give you a different perspective on your life and the progress you are making toward your goals.

Perhaps the best way to acknowledge yourself is to reward yourself every time you achieve a significant goal. Rewarding yourself builds motivation and confidence. Each time you achieve a goal, CELEBRATE! You deserve it!

Rewards also close-off the energy that was created while moving toward the goal. If you dont acknowledge yourself for achieving a goal, it will actually become unfinished business and, even though you have achieved it, some past energy will be stored thus not making 100% of your energy available in the present.

Design a list of rewards that you can give yourself for achieving your goals. These could be tangible rewards such as a dinner out with friends, a new piece of clothing, a pampering day at the spa or a well-earned holiday, or intangible rewards such as feelings. You will notice, as you begin to achieve your goals, that the feelings of achieving the goal are often the greatest rewards. The feelings of strong self-confidence, self-belief and heightened self-worth that come with achieving your goals are priceless.

Self-appreciation

Another excellent way of encouraging yourself is to have gratitude for all of the things you have in your life. Often we get caught up in the negative things or the things that we dont have or dont want in our lives, and this takes our focus away from all the positive things that we do have.

If you are struggling to find the positives about yourself, I recommend keeping a pen and paper beside your bed, and each night before you go to sleep writing down everything that happened during the day that you are grateful for. Within no time you will have a very different perspective on yourself, your life and the things and people in it.

Accountability and support group

Identifying key people in your life that you can share your vision of an ideal life with and asking them for their encouragement and support to help you to achieve it is a great way to encourage yourself. Even better, why not all support each other and form an EASE creation group, where you meet regularly to discuss your goals and vision for your life of EASE. In doing this you will not only encourage each other and feel supported, but you will also keep each other accountable to follow through on your plans.

List the people you would like to have in your EASE creation group.

If you follow just one or two of the suggestions in this article I guarantee you will start to build a greater sense of internal motivation which can only lead to you achieving all of your goals in a lot easier fashion.

“Being an elite performer on the playing field of life is not about being perfect. Rather, it is about cultivating a mental focus towards mastery in every area of your life. It is about committing yourself, from the core of your heart, to manifest and polish your highest talents and become the person you are destined to be.”
Robin S. Sharma

Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/self-help-articles/how-to-use-self-encouragement-to-increase-motivation-46372.html

About the Author
Andrew McCombe is an international author, coach, presenter and trainer and can assist you, your team or your organization with your health, fitness, well being and motivational needs.

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10 Responses to “Self Help Elderly”

  1. queenie one says:

    What should I do to protect my elderly parents and self?
    Yesterday I was painting a building. I see a helicopter, and it has police on the side , I know go in and lock the doors if I ever see one of these, but I had to get the building painted and I went in and got my hand gun and went back to painting and this guy came out of no where ( I live on a dirt road away from the main Highway with No TressPassing signs)I asked him what he was doing and I told him that this was private property and he should stop where he was at. He started running I then motioned for the helicopter to come over to me and the police around surrounded my property I know the guy heard me tell them where he went,and they got him. Ok I know I was right to help the police, with no doubt. But he runs with about 5 to 6 drug runners known to the neighborhood thats beside our land. I don’t play when it comes to protecting my family. What is legal in order to protect your family in North Carolina?
    This is a true story call the 8 Charlottte Mecklenburg PoliceOfficers that where here at 4:03 pm, that thanked me and my gun is Always Locked up wtih a police issued locked and their are no children in my home. I’m not promoting gun use , but I do beleive in having a right to protect your family and yourself. At any means of protection.

    • Anonymous says:

      you was right in your action, everyone have the right to protect his property and his FAMILY. keep doing what you are doing, every one has the Right to protect whats his.

  2. maisie says:

    I’m the only child of elderly parents who are self destructing and I don’t know what to do?
    I live and work 1200 miles from my parents, both in their 70s, who are mishandling money they can’t afford to lose, the one who can drive is doing it drunk on a regular basis and their lives (and perhaps innocent bystanders) are headed toward a cliff. I am single and make enough to take care of myself, but I can’t afford to quit my job and move home to care for them. There are no other relatives to help and they’ve not kept up their friendships.

    I’m at a loss and they don’t pay any attention to my pleas for sanity. Anyone have experience with this sort of situation?
    They refuse to move in with me and won’t consider moving close by because they don’t want to leave their home.

    • Anonymous says:

      If you look in the White Pages of the area that you parents live there will be a number listed for Elder Care. Usually under County Services. They should be able to go and evaluate them and see if they qualify for assitance, financial or otherwise. They will also make your parents realize how severe the situation is.

  3. Leila says:

    Inspirational self-help DVD or CD Christmas gift for depressed elderly grandmother?
    I’m looking for a special Christmas gift for my grandmother. She has just been moved into assisted living and is very depressed. I know time spent with her is the best gift, and I certainly intend to do that as much as possible while I’m home, but I live on the other side of the country and don’t get home as often as I would like. She doesn’t have a lot of space for knickknacks, so I was thinking maybe an inspirational CD or DVD….any ideas? Thanks.

  4. GTO babe says:

    Last alternative left, is placing gloves/mittens on an elderly woman to avoid self harm abuse?
    This woman is on Loratidine daily, care givers are bathing her in pinetarsil and applying aqueous cream all these to help alleviate her itching, however to no avail. The mittens is the last alternative i can thing of to avoid her clawing herself. The question is this abuse? I have explained to her daughter and she is agreeable. Likewise drafted a careplan as to the intervention in place to which the daughter has signed and consented. However, an Rn said it was abuse. The daughter has stated not doing anything about it is abuse. Can somebody give me directions on where to go to further my research.

    • Anonymous says:

      It is abuse to let her claw at her skin by all means do what You feel is right and you won’t go wrong. tell the Rn to go fly a kite. she is a nut

  5. parsley says:

    E-mail attachments are coded when i download them.?
    I have Windows Vista,this problem did not occur with my previous laptop running on XP.My Yahoo browser uses Internet explorer so i have to use Notepad to download to.It has been suggested i try Adobe reader but that would not accept “corrupt” files.Can anyone help,please make it simple as i am a self taught elderly lady.

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