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Personality Traits & Personal Growth – Understand Your Temperament to Accomplish Life Goals

No two people are exactly alike. Even identical twins can have very different personalities, and different definitions of happiness and success. Each of us has a unique temperament; a set of personality traits that reflect our attitudes, values and talents. Temperament is the interaction of communication and action – what we say and what we do. Tapping into these traits, and the traits of others, can help to improve personal relationships, find a dream job, and accomplish life goals. Whether striving for financial success or looking for a soul mate, recognizing unique qualities, shortcomings and strengths is a valuable tool. This self awareness inspires personal growth and improves relationships with others.

Through extensive research of human behavior, we identified mankind’s four basic temperaments as the Artisan, the Guardian, the Rational, and the Idealist. Which one fits your personality? Are you a loyal, cautious Guardian, on whom everyone relies to keep things running smoothly? A free-spirited Artisan, living in the moment and believing anything is possible? Or a warm-hearted Idealist, who prizes meaningful relationships and seeks self awareness? You may even be that rarest of temperaments, a Rational. Making up as little as 5 percent of the population, a Rational personality thrives on analyzing how systems work, then striving to make them work better. Influential thinkers such as Albert Einstein, Marie Curie and Walt Disney may be rare, but they are fearless innovators.

Communication style is determined by temperament, influencing both professional and personal relationships. A Concrete Communicator is most comfortable discussing tangible reality; family, home, facts and figures. An Abstract Communicator is always asking, “Why?” or “What if?” If this describes your personality traits, you are more concerned with theories, philosophies and possibilities. In short, Concrete people talk about reality, Abstract people talk about ideas.

Temperament also dictates actions; how we overcome challenges and accomplish goals. Again, there are two distinct types of actions. The efficient Utilitarian personality doesn’t get bogged down by rules and paperwork; he makes a pragmatic beeline for those actions that get results. The Cooperative personality is more concerned with right and just behavior; an action’s effectiveness is secondary.

These two behaviors can overlap, certainly, but as they lead their lives, Utilitarian people instinctively do what works; Cooperative people do what’s right. Recognizing the difference is key to self awareness.

As Concrete Cooperators, Guardians speak of duties and responsibilities. They obey laws and follow the rules. Concrete Cooperators prize experience; they know what worked in the past, and see no reason to fix what is not broken.

As Abstract Cooperators, Idealists speak mostly of possibilities, always trying to reach their goals without compromising a personal code of ethics.

As Concrete Utilitarians, Artisans speak of things that are in front of them, doing whatever works, even if it means bending the rules.

As Abstract Utilitarians, Rationals are problem solvers who might ignore arbitrary rules and conventions in order to achieve a goal.

This is the first in a series of articles to help accomplish goals and gain self awareness through understanding of personal temperament. Next time: Guardian personalities

About the author: David M. Keirsey, PhD is an Educational Psychologist specializing in human behavior; his lifelong work focuses on four distinct patterns of behavior woven throughout history. The subject of two international bestsellers, The Keirsey Temperament Theory has been used to train educators, psychologists, a number of Fortune 500 companies and even the U.S. military. Get your FREE Personality Report at http://www.keirsey.com/sorter/register.aspx

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10 Responses to “Personal Growth”

  1. helomeyahhoo says:

    What is the definition of personal growth?
    I have to write an essay on personal growth and i was wonder ing what the best definition would be PLEASE HELP

    • SAR swmr says:

      In simplest terms I would say: it’s where you are as a person.

      When you were very young you might like to play tic-tac-toe, and now you don’t. Why?
      Because your perception has changed.

      Now apply this to anything you do and this determines where you are in personal growth.

      When you have a family you find you really like playing tic-tac-toe w/ you son or daughter. Why? You already know how to play? Because your sharing your time showing them something fun (to them) makes you happy as a parent. You’re connecting to them and not so much as who wins.

      Later in life you see your children playing the game w/ their children and see their connection to each other and just having a good time w/ each other. You see where they are.

      This is why I say; it’s where you are as a person. Some people stop changing and learning as people. Some people grow every day, no matter the age.

      This is how I view it, good luck on the essay and I hope this helps.

  2. mayur d says:

    Personal Growth?
    about Personal Growth
    About Personality Development
    About Concept of personal growth

    • neela m says:

      You start caring for people around you- This is real personal growth.
      Personality development includes keeping yourself fit and active-taking care of people around you.

  3. Joyce Laola says:

    How are relationships important for personal growth?
    Im writing an essay and I would appreciate some
    ideas on how interpersonal relationships help the following:
    social survival
    and personal growth?

    • TheMasterOfAnswers says:

      Oh darling,
      what do you think?

      You may be thick, so i will tell you

      F*KING SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU SHOULD BE AT IT LIKE RABBITS!!!!!

      oh, and exercise helps you grow as well as green beans :)

      BY THE WAY
      UR A a litle *behind* for not knowing this sweetie :)

      Puberty not hit you yet darling? Mama understands darling. Don’t pee with worry :)

      Yours not-so-F’king-faithfully
      THE ONE AND ONLY B*STARD,
      OppaDongi and Friends

  4. stephiewon says:

    How does a state of sinfulness can lead to personal growth, sympathy, and understanding in Scarlet Letter?
    I need to write an essay about Scarlet Letter and I need quotes with page number on how Hester and Dimmsdale’s state of sinfulness can lead to personal growth, sympathy, and understanding

    Gracias

    • augie6_1 says:

      The narrator indicates that Dimmesdale is one of those individuals who secretly practices self-flagellation (basically, beating himself) to punish himself for his sin.

      From Shmoop

  5. John Smith says:

    How does Holden experience personal growth through his mistakes in The Catcher in the Rye?
    also how does Huck experience personal growth through his mistakes in The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn? And what’s an example of personal growth in A Raisin In the Sun? Any help on any of these questions would be greatly appreciated, thanks.

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