September 2nd, 2011 
jvremec
Improving Your Self Confidence And Self Image Thus Attract People'S Attention
Are you wondering why people do not give you a second chance or no chance at all, yet you have brilliant business ideas? Or maybe you have academic qualifications but no company seems keen to hire your? There is one thing you need to look into and that is your self confidence and self image.
Little do people know that those un-intended actions contribute immensely and make an impact to the people we relate to. If you have a low self image or are suffering from lack of self confidence, it will show by the way you carry yourself around. Your body language and posture usually will portray what is inside you.
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Does having a significant other in your life improve your self-confidence?
I do not have particularly high self confidence. I have also never had a boyfriend. I believe not having that special someone makes me feel inadequate and undesirable, and therefore lowers my self-confidence.
Please share you opinions on this topic. Thanks very much.
To some extent but self confidence has to come from with in.
What are some ways to improve your self-confidence?
I’m extremely self-concious. No matter what people tell me, I have felt ugly and fat my whole life, even though I’m told constantly I’m pretty or skinny. Sometimes, people even tell me I’m too skinny. What are some ways I can feel better about my self?
A healthy diet works. Working out to a healthy degree. Telling yourself constantly that you are happy with yourself. If you believe yourself to be fat I say listen to the people around you BUT if you still think so then make yourself believe that your kind of “fat” is beautiful. As well if you know a guy that enjoys giving compliments then ask him to give you one a day. Its always nice having compliments especially when they are meant. Sleep also can be helped. Read inspirational stories. Dress comfortably and stop being paranoid about the things around you. Take risks until they dont feel risky anymore (social risks nothing stupid) like speak up in a crowd when you know your right or take a position on something that you know you are right in. Me personally I have plenty of confidence simply because I dont look at myself so critically. Become comfortable with who you are and not what you think you should be. Love yourself (not too much) and know that when your friends say you are beautiful then they mean it. Too skinny well if they make a comment about you being blown away in the wind then maybe you should wear rocks in your jacket to keep you down. Hope this helps. Take risks and expand your comfort level.
Which is a good book on how to improve your communication skills? And improving your self confidence?
I usually use http://www.bartleby.com/64/ as a reference when I’m at work for English usage. For confidence, I believe, as long as you know what you’re talking about and you can express it well, you’re good to go.
Does keeping a clean home improves your self confidence?
In other words if you keep a dirty home you are more prone to have less self confidence and it affects your life all around compared to just coming to a dirty home.
I used to be lazier about cleaning…Okay, I was very lazy! lol
But since getting married and moving into my own place, I’ve had a strong desire to make sure everything’s clean and taken care of everyday. For one, I hate having a smelly house or bugs.
Cleaning does improve self confidence and helps pass the time. It’s alot better than sitting online for hours or watching tv, while your home sits messy and stinky! Plus, if you play music while you’re doing it, it’s not so bad! It’s taken me a while to learn all of this, but I’m glad that I have.
What are some you can improve your self confidence?
I am very negative when it comes to myself. I see every flaw and beat myself up for all my past mistakes. I feel at a loss sometimes. . .I hate being alone and not having that special someone in my life. I know my lack of confidence plays a great role in this. What can I do?
Hi ♥Chocoholic♥,
) …. If not so physically active, I would encourage volunteering at a hospital, food bank, Habitat for Humanity, or some kind of charity…. Here you can “gain” the “confidence” in knowing : that your abilities and work was “appreciated”, by someone who needed it….. 
First, here’s a piece of advice that you may have heard before… but, I have found invaluable : in order for you to love others, you have to be able to love yourself…. So, be “proud” of “who” you are, your accomplishments, and everything you do have…. instead of thinking about what you do “not” have or what you “could have”…..
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Although, it is commendable to : aspire to become a better person or lead a better life, I think a person should appreciate the life she/he has, before trying to make it better…. If you’re trying to fix something about “you” that you’ll never be happy with… then you’ll always be unhappy….
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The second thing I’ll say is : to “never” let “anyone” make you feel otherwise…. If you believe in yourself, and do things the way “you want”, to the best of your ability ….and that’s all you can expect from yourself….
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Of course, this is all “easier said than done”, and comes mostly from the “inside”… So referring to : external sources of self-confidence, I would suggest getting “involved” in group or volunteer activities… that allow you to contribute/participate in a greater good/purpose…..
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I find that having a “communal or supportive group of people” all with the same goal, allows “people” to start something together, endure challenges, and overcome these challenges to accomplish something helps….. If you’re a physically active person, I would highly recommend trying martial arts, not only does it teach discipline, propriety, conduct, it allows you the release and environment… where everyone is starting out just like you..
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Skills you learn, and “ability” to do them comes from you and no one else, making you feel very “accomplished”, all in a supportive environment (hopefully if it is a decent instructor
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I hope this will help you, on your way….
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Good luck!
Thanks, for the question!
My regards!
Take care!