December 7th, 2011 
jvremec
Build Confidence in Yourself to Attract Women
Confidence is a desirable personality trait. It can make or break a man. It can also determine his future success in having a family and working life. People like to be around those who are confident of themselves. This shows that they are secure and dont feel inferior in any way. They cannot be cowered or be subdued into doing things that they dont like.
Okay, so know that we realize the importance of confidence, lets look at some ways we can begin to develop it. How to become a cool, confident guy? The first step to becoming the guy youve always wanted to be is to close your eyes and imagine every aspect of his character. Dont rush through this.
Then say to yourself, If I can see him, I can be him. Now take your face and put it on this character. Brand this image into your subconscious. In your mind, get used to walking around like this guy. Get used to talking like him.
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How do you build confidence in yourself?
Hi! I’m starting a new job and it requires me to quickly learn the sections and some of them are quite complicated, and I have to learn to get up to speed very quickly.
I know I can do the work, but am worried about the pace.
But I also realize part of the problem is a lack of self-confidence. How do I teach myself self-confidence?
Self-confidence comes from knowing your strong points. You need to turn off any negative vibes you got from family and peers and turn On the positive ones. You must decide that you and God (if you believe in God, if not then you must be your own God) are the judges and no one else. Experience teaches us what we can and cannot do and the Cannots are just Accomplishments we haven’t attained Yet! Don’t ever let other people, even your boss, define who you are and what qualities you have. If that sounds simple, it is not. (I wish some nice lady had told me that when I was younger.) @8-)
What is the best way to build confidence in yourself so you aren’t relying on others to do it for you? ?
I tend to put my self-worth in what others tell me. I tend to strive for male attention even if it’s the wrong kind. I am realizing that now. So how do you build confidence in yourself so you can remain ‘unchanged’ no matter what others say about or to you?
Thanks
My 2 favorite quotes:
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent
We wouldn’t worry what people think of us if we knew how seldom they do.
You have to change your mindset. You have to eliminate all those subconscious beliefs that control your thoughts and actions. Once you do that, it’s surprisingly easy to become more confident in yourself and less dependent on what others think. Believe me, I know from experience.
The two things that helped me the most are listed below. The first one has a free cd that is better than most of the paid products out there.
Good luck! The first step is realizing that you want to change, and you’ve already conquered that
How can you build confidence in yourself?
Please Tell me how can a person build confidence in himself?
Being in front of people on stage for a speech or presentation is hard for many people, why?
Why people feel shy in front of others while doing something the others do well like speaking to a crowd, singing, or hosting etc…
There are two components to your question, both are genuine issues of development. To start I will address your concerns respecting confidence. There is a method in the “old school” prov-en over time by success. TO DEVELOP SELF CONFIDENCE ONE MUST ATTEMPT SOMETHING WHICH THEY DID NOT PREVIOUSLY THINK THEY COULD ACCOMPLISH. The activity may involve almost anything. Dancing, singing…sky diving or painting a picture are all examples of things to try. The choice is your s and depends upon your fears and your desires. However, it should be something you wanted to do but were afraid [or something you simply do not think you can accomplish]. It results in your now “knowing” that you can or can not accomplish this object task and the benefit is increased self confidence. Public speaking is a good exercise of the prescription, but, as you have alluded to this in your question it may be necessary to provide a wider descriptive. In public speaking there was a general rule in the Army, it was almost like a mnemonic. It went as follows: “as you look upon the audience imagine that they are all occupied on the ‘crapper..NOW, don’t take yourself seriously and speak clearly and loudly so they will attend to your words”
How to build confidence in yourself?
I was always made fun of when I was younger and still to this day I am made fun of. I am 16 yrs old and I have no confidence in myself because I’m always afraid people will make fun of because I have experience it before. I want to show the kids who still make fun of me that there is more to me than meets the eye.
I’ve noticed people on here seem to be no different than the kids you are referring to. I can tell you that when dealing with people like this even if you show confidence or intelligence, they will taunt you out of jealousy or low self esteem.
personally, I enjoy jabbing back at them because, just as we all had to stand up to the schoolyard bully, so will you have to stand up for yourself all through life!
remember though, that true confidence means you do not need or crave approval from the masses. be true to yourself. be courageous. by these actions alone you will have proved that there IS more to you than meets the eye.
…or, you could buy a sports car and get a hot girlfriend. that’s what grown-ups do…..lol.